Who should be included in your wedding guest count?

When you’re budgeting for your wedding, guest count is one of your biggest factors to consider. Inviting someone to your wedding means you’re asking them to be there for one of the most important days of your life. They will be witnessing your commitment to each other, hearing your heartfelt vows, and partying with you as you celebrate.

That means your guest count counts!

Most of your budget will be affected by how many people attend your wedding. The price of your food, rentals, drinks, cake, stationary, and floral centerpieces will all be determined by how many guests are there. Even your venue to an extent is decided by your guest count.

So if your starting to go over budget, it can probably be solved by shaving down your guest list…but how do you decide who should be there?

People to Shave off of Your Guest List

Family members that you don’t see or know

If you have family members that you haven’t talked to in years, you don’t have to invite them! Your wedding is for you, family, and close friends to celebrate your love for each other. It’s not a family reunion. Don’t feel required to send an invite to everyone you’re related to.

Friends you haven’t heard from in a long time

If you’re feeling nostalgic and missing a friendship that you used to have, you might feel like you have to invite them to repair the relationship. But your wedding day will be full of mingling with guests and trying to get some time with your new spouse. You’ll be far too busy to try and resurrect a previous friendship.

Certain Plus-Ones

You’re not required to give everyone a plus-one, especially if you’ve never met their boyfriend or girlfriend. Personally, I only gave plus-ones to my guests that were engaged. Some couples give plus-ones to people that have been dating their significant other for more than 6 months. Determining that is totally up to you, just know that everyone doesn’t need one.

Co-Workers

Just because you work with someone doesn’t mean you’re obligated to have them at your wedding. Instead, plan a time to go out to dinner or happy hour to celebrate.

Children

Now this one can feel controversial, but you can make your wedding adult-only if you prefer. You’ll have to break the news to your parent friends, but they might enjoy a night to themselves.

Rowdy Friends

If you have a friend that is known for getting kicked out of bars or has acted out at other weddings, consider leaving them off of your list.

Friend of your parents or in-laws

Now you can’t always get around this one (especially if your parents are helping pay for your wedding), but you can say no to an invite for someone that you’ve never met.

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